Don't know if you realised it or not - you've just dissed the advise from some of the most experianced & qualified people there are anywhere on the web, along with the best author on the subject, so maybe take a deep breath and relax a little. There are no instant answers for any particular build so you need to do the research and see what fits for you. The best way to start would be to follow the suggestions already given. Frustration aside, an apology would go a long ways toward achieving these goals also.
